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Amy Appleby's avatar

This had me entirely gripped and I was like “yes that, and that oh and definitely that” 😍 You must put this out in more places x

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Siets's avatar

Just brilliant. Agree with all the comments. Thank you for sharing.

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Thanking for coming by and leaving a message xx

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Jenny Preston-Griffiths's avatar

Oh my goodness. I couldn't stop reading.

I often have a little story that plays in my head. It involves me being watched by ofsted, while I'm teaching a KS2 class. And I'm trying to get them to get to a point on their own. Why? I say. They explain. Why? I say. They dig deeper. Why? I say? And keep going until they get to the Ah Ha! Point. I jump and shout YES! And I see the wonder on their face and the pride that they did it themselves. You have literally just written this down and it was amazing 🥰

You are so inspiring! All of those moments. ❤

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Oh I love this!!!! Yes it is just like this. Thank you dear 🥰

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Anna McNuff's avatar

Oh wow. 🙀 I wanted to print this out and put a tick next to each one that applied as a visual representation of just how THE SAME many of us feel in motherhood and yet it’s so, so isolating 🤷🏼‍♀️ 🤯

In fact, if you ever turned this into street art, passing mums could tick it! Thanks so much Nelly.🫶🏻 I love the journaling prompt too. ✨

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Thank you Anna. It’s so wonderfully comforting to know you’re not alone isn’t it. Thanks for such a considerate comment x

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Rach's avatar

I love this so much; I’m saving it to read again & hopefully get round to doing in my journal too - you are an amazing human X

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Thank you for replying lovely. These are the posts I press SEND on then feel weird about for hours. Your comment has lessened that weirdness. I am so grateful for that x

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Rach's avatar

😘

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Cameron Mackworth's avatar

I so want a Mr. Happy umbrella, and my HRT if totally f*cked too. I believe you've spoken for a lot of us, only better. Very nice to meet you, Nelly! 😊

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

So very nice to meet you too. Thanks for stopping by. Hope that happy umbrella turns up one day soon (adult version? Can’t understand why no one has made one now I think about it 🤣)

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Catherine Kernot's avatar

Ah, this is all my truth too. Thank you for expressing it so perfectly.

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Thank you for telling me that Catherine ❤️

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Barbara Guimaraes's avatar

This is so interesting! I will definitely be trying this while journaling tonight. Thank you for sharing!

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Ivett Gáncs's avatar

Thank you for this piece. I kept feeling first as a whisper that ending up in a sigh 'I am not alone!' 💗

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

So very much not alone xxx

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Angela Joy's avatar

Oh this is all so true. I love how you poured the ouch into something really lovely 🥰. I like to think my delayed replies help others feel they can delay their replies to me too and that’s ok (although not sure that always works out!!). So glad you shared this xxx

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Yes that is so true. I am never bothered by long delays. Maybe I should send a generic “…it’s ok to not reply for days” out to friends 🤣

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Angela Joy's avatar

Yes! Or sat a link to this piece as a kind of what’s app out of office 😆

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Angela Joy's avatar

And the line ‘because I appear to be writing this instead’ 👌👌👌

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Beverley Ward's avatar

Love this. It's so relatable for me as a single, working, writing mum (aside from the husband!) x

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Jen Eden's avatar

Oh, Nelly, I love this piece! I felt like I was reading my own internal commentary - just a stream of yes, that! And that too! Thank you for sharing your ‘becauses’ with such honesty. And same, same, same.❤️

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Rach's avatar

Just re-read this and loved it just as much, it is so bloody perfect xx

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Shreya's avatar

This was so entirely engrossing and all-out fantastic, Nelly!!! 💕💕💕💕

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Nelly Bryce's avatar

Oh you've just made my day there. And you are a fellow journaller stationery geek? Well hello (waves) x

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Shreya's avatar

Yes, journaling and stationery nerd through and through! 😁

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